Making decisions can often cause us to feel quite anxious. We worry about making the right choice because we don’t want to suffer the consequences of a bad one. We can easily overcome this form of worry by seeking out what God is saying. The bible tells us if we need wisdom all we need to do is ask.
However, we don’t need to get all stressed about this. Just be open and honest before God and allow Him to guide your decision process. He will use people or circumstances to open and close doors. He is a good Father and He wants you to make the right choices, so it won’t be complicated.
If after seeking God you still feel a little unsure, simply pray, God this is what I sense you are saying but please close the door if I’m out of step with you. It’s also important to understand that there are times when God doesn’t mind whether we choose the steak or the curry – He is just happy for us to enjoy the moment. May we rest in God and trust His leading. May we also relax in Him, if it’s important, He’ll make his way clear to us.
My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments, for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to you. Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favour and good success in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD, and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones. Proverbs 3:1-8